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Shae Matthews

Personal Transformation
& Inner Game Coach

I help men free themselves from limitation and express their true potential
 
 
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You have arrived in the right place if you dream of having:

  • More confidence to go for what you want and be free in expressing yourself.
  • Powerful abilities to understand your mind and be free from the stresses that hold you back.
  • Deep feelings of meaning and alignment with your purpose and the world around you.
  • Self-love, appreciation, gratitude, an excess of value to share with the world.
  • Excellence in building your character and crafting your destiny from the inside out.

What can Inner Game do for you?

​Inner game coaching can help you:
  • Clear traumas, negative blocks and beliefs from your life that stop you from feeling alive.
  • Create powerful new life directions, habits, and strategies of effectiveness.
  • Break addictions, old habits, and compulsions.
  • Improve your ability to truly master your life, relationships, sexuality, and self-love.
  • Become more spiritually connected and develop a map of personal evolution.
  • Increase your abundance, luck and overall happiness.
  • Learn to manage emotions, health and energy in your own personal special
    way.
  • Manifest your dreams with goals, life planning, trance and visualisation.
  • ​Deeper knowledge of self and letting go of what is not useful...and much more.
  • Want to talk more about Inner Game? Contact me by hitting the button below.

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Students Testimonials

"Before meeting Shae I lacked confidence as a man, I felt worthless, like I don't deserve to be noticed. A feeling I was living with my whole life, and it felt like something that is set and cannot be changed. Both times I worked with Shae I felt really energized. I also felt alright with who I am currently, without the need to hide it or put on any mask. After the work we did I realized that whatever reality I lived in is just a story I keep repeating in my head, and I can choose to tell a different story. Shae's a really authentic man who is very knowledgeable in the field he works in, has many years of experience, and does actually care about his clients. Goes beyond the schedule and content we pay for, and is open to answer any question we have in a very honest and friendly way. "

Jan

"Before the training I felt "normal". the strongest feeling was the expectations and anxiety. looking back I can't name what I was expecting. maybe it's even better I was ready to accept anything. After working with Shae for a bit I started to love him. he has got a strong solid frame. the place where you could feel safe to open yourself. he has the ability to listen to make the companion feel important. I'd like to learn this skill. I do remember when I was making the evening drill with the girl and Shae. Shae was smiling all the time, with this good father smile -- I like how your are doing. I saw the real pattern that I'd like to install into myself. I really admire this one sentence "if women can worship their vagina we can worship our cock and balls". it was a strong inspiration to start thinking why I was ashame about this masculine part of my body and how it affects my mind, my spirit. the following practices with sky cock, imaginary perfect woman, the permission to express your feelings ALOUD. also it was very unexpected to realize that in this solid, calm and polite man there is a warrior, a lover, a teacher.. a wildman. and these part are not suppressed these are alive and ready to act. "

Fredrick

"Before meeting Shae I felt ashamed of my sexuality and I was also of the idea that taking space in this universe for my self was kind of egoist and wrong. Working with Shae was challenging and confronting at the same time. It was challenging in many ways: some of Shae ideas were in conterposition with my previous believes, some exercise forced to face shame (simulating having sex with a big cock in a public space), and some of the meditations forced to face some of my fears. On the other hand it was confronting to have finally someone who had a much deeper knowledge on those areas, and the feeling that Shae had invested a lot more time than myself in researching those areas. Shae's ideas although some of them challenging, where logical and well explained which gave me the sense of sinthony with him and allowed me to trust him. After only one session with Shae I felt a MASSIVE change in my sexuality. I almost don't feel ashame of expressing my sexual desires, and to tell a woman I want to fuck you now. I also could isolate and understand better my biggest fears (for me is acceptance of death). And last thing i feel empowered to take things of my surroundings to make myself happy. To create a space to myself and to give back to the world my interpretation of it. I would recommend Shae because he has a very broad spectrum of knowledge, and he codifies in a way which is understandable for engineer minded people. I do struggle when it's too esoteric, because many things are for my current view of the world bulshit. I felt Shae has the ability of filter all those things out and deliver it in a way that is like a pill of vitamins - all esentials without the crap. Thanks Shae for your coachings, you really changed my life in a couple of very imporant areas. It was a pleasure to work with you. "

Maxi

"Before I met Shae I was shy, not able to show myself to the world, I gave too much power to the others and let them influence my life, I felt ashamed of my desires. When I worked with Shae I felt like I got the power back from the others, very clean, more relaxed, and after, I felt more open to experiencing the world, I got more social in interacting with others. I’ve got some perspectives to see the world around me. I would recommend Shae because he offers the tools that you need to get over your fears, set backs. Like meditation, EFT, NLP. He provide you new ideas to see the world and to process the experiences you have. "

Mike

"Before working with Shae I felt disconnected from myself. Tense and on edge. As if changing was too overwhelming. Working with Shae felt low pressure, enjoyable, practical. We dove deep into Exploring the unconscious archetypes i resonate with. Finding laughter as a resource. A lot of south park visuals! Getting a first time experiential understanding of observing my mind and acquiring the tools to a whole new mode of being. After the healing we did together Ive seen changes in my mindset and my perspective of life on a macro level. I have not achieved any tangible goals but my approach to day to day life is much less self critical. I am more accepting of moments where i feel disempowered and beat myself up less. I would recommend Shae because he really invests in your wellbeing. He honours your time, your money, and has put more into my process then an average coach ever would."

Oliver

"Before I meet Shae I felt lost and I was confused. I did not know witch direction I wanted to take in life, or how to go about the inner resources that I have in myself. I did not feel like I had the resources and I felt ashamed of the feelings and desires that I have. Working with Shae was amazing and confusing. I felt that he grounded in himself and that he has a lot of experience and a even more tools and practises to help us. He was very good at focusing on the internal state of emotion and he wanted to help us accept and change our current beliefs and feelings. I personally had a few breakdowns with him, mostly because he made me experience the deepest realms of myself and the constant blocking I do to myself. I felt amazing because he showed me that I have the power to control myself, however, the constant facing of myself was challenging and confusing. I remember that he wanted to help me. He actually cared about my feelings. However, he was not there to solve them he was there to guide and show a way that could be usefull, witch was great, because it meant that he gave me the power to change and grow into whatever I wished. After I worked with Shae I have seen the changes that I have a lot of new resources that I can draw power and inspiration from. I have gotten a biger toolkit, that helps me to incorporate my shadow into my life as a streagth. One of the best things for me was the new way of thinking of myself and my reality. However, I am still on a path of discovering what I am capable of and I am still battling my thought patters and processes. I would recommend him because he has the knowledge and the power to guide you. He has a lot of different tools that is usefull and practical to your everyday life. He is focused on innergame witch is the most important part of being able to change and shift into whatever it is one desire. Harry Before I met Shae I felt insecure about my past. I felt self conscious about many things, like what people thought of me, my looks, age, lack of direction in life, lack of success with women. I let rejection upset me. I was worried about the future. Working with Shae was a way to clear my head of a lot of the baggage I've been carrying around. Shae got me looking at my past from a different perspective. I felt at ease with how my life has turned out and positive for the future. After the work I did with Shae I felt less self conscious. I feel very assured of myself now. Proud of my past and excited for my future. I have quietened a lot of little voices in my head. Shae is a cool chilled guy and I felt comfortable telling him anything, and I feel at ease around him. He’s a down to earth guy with a great knowledge of how our mind works, he’s really easy to talk to and makes opening up easy. Shae also checked in on me after our session to see how things were going. I’d feel comfortable getting back in touch with him in the future, and plan to."

Chris

"Before meeting Shae I felt like living in a tragic and hopeless truth, malevolent about myself. Working with Shae was inspiring, uplifting, enlightening, like I could conceive another reality, that I was actually free to create/reprogram my own reality. I remember being uplifted, hypnotised! A day I was feeling like shit, he absolutely boosted me. I didn't know such thing was actually possible! After some of the excercises I began to be more grounded, confident in myself and my future. I feel like with real presence and awareness, a new world is opening before me I would recommend Shae because of his great spirit/mindset, and he has such a wide range of tools/techniques to help people."

Lukas

"Before I met Shae I felt like I was not a man. Working with Shae was eye opening. I see creativity in a new light. I was stunned by the way Shae perceives and projects creativity. After the work we did I felt more confident in myself. I now feel like I’ve been boosted. I don’t feel stuck anymore. Even though life moves forward and things change I was feeling stuck for a long time before I met Shae. I would recommend Shae because he will teach you how to guide yourself through whatever it is you are trying to overcome."

Josh

"Before I met Shae I had performance anxiety in the bedroom, which prevented me from actually performing. Working with Shae was emotionally brutal and draining, confronting the many memories that caused my mental blocks. Shae asks and expects you to bring forth the most intense memories that need to be addressed. I am grateful of how accepting and encouraging Shae was and continues to be, regardless of what I said and emotions that came forth. After working with Shae I felt much better about past experiences. Previously they acted as sources of shame and anxiety, whereas now they act as sources of experience and wisdom. Shae truly cares about you and works hard to develop techniques designed to finding emotional and mental clarity. Our sessions were done via skype, which certainly would have been better in person, but geographically that was impossible. Given the circumstances, Shae provided excellent service and was very accommodating."

Krzysiek

"Before working with Shae I felt disconnected with my masculinity and unsupported by my family. I felt a lack of love from my parents and attention of my brothers. Working with Shae was eye opening and transformative. Shae showed me how to transform negative experiences of the past into positively felt ones. I appreciate how passionate he is about helping others. He cares and truly showed me a way how I can reframe experiences myself. Now, after working with Shae I feel supported by my family. A union of brothers going in the same direction while my parents are there, loving. I also embrace my cock and balls more often. Paying attention and appreciating them. He knows what he is doing. You get NLP combined with experience in seduction and sexuality. A unique combination! "

Conrad

""I created a struggling phase while working in Indonesia. Lots of questions, pain, confusion and suffering.  In applying Shae's guided life spring audio meditations, I felt supported and nurtured in moving out of my suffering creation. I felt a guidance to accessing new parts of my universe that allowed me to download the energetic resources needed to heal, rejuvenate & evolve. So grateful for the resources when i needed it!" Peace & Love "

James

"My experience of working with shae to date has been one of being validated as a mature male, during the course of this journey called life, many aspects that Shae touches upon has being known and felt, yet at the time mostly misunderstood.   The content of the coacing is rich and engaging, and particularly steered for the male psyche. My belief is that this material would be of enormous benefit if presented to all adolescent males as they travel the road to manhood.   Covering aspects of masculinity from : how to be in your body, how to set your boundaries, how to use your own psycho-sexual energy to remain balanced and in alignment with the content of your current lifestyle.   "

Dean

"I had heard much about Shae's teachings and the transformative effects of his teachings on their lives, and so was eager to work with him myself. Starting with our first meeting, he gave me several powerful tools to help me directly address my limiting beliefs about my own self-worth. Just talking with Shae had a powerful effect on shattering and reshaping my concept of reality; he has a way of phrasing difficult concepts in metaphors and explanations that are very easy to digest. I can't count the number of “ah ha!” realization moments I've had during discussions with Shae. The many guys I know who have also worked with Shae all repeat the same basic truth: if you have the opportunity to work with Shae, you will see massive shifts in your views of yourself and the world, and thus massive improvement in your quality of life."

Vince

"My programming was defective. Shae fixed it. Nuff said."

Jon

"I had my best experiences with Shae! His feedback, while it had some technical aspects to it, helped me direct myself more onto a broader sense of purpose. I became the hero of connection. Many of the other coaches feedback put me in my head as I became focused on something particular, Shae would give me a plethora of mindsets, technical tools, possible directions and positive encouragement that was too much for me to become singularly focused on. My energy with Shae was incredible, I felt like I really was making the world a better place and sharing something special!"

Peter B

"I totally resonated with Shae's "deeper" approach of daygame resp. the fact that it's all about ones inner game related insecurities and unprocessed emotions. What I also want to highlight are the morning sessions with great insights and shared knowledge how to deal with these inner game constraints. Thank you and I'm looking forward to your the liberated man content!"

Caleb

"Shae's impact on me during the workshop is beyond words. His 90-minute meditation session on Day 4 of the workshop completely rewired my brain. I was experiencing a rough couple of days and self-doubt had settled in. After the meditation session though, I felt like a blank slate and that all of my insecurities and mental hangups were months away in the past. Every single interaction I had with a woman that day, even if it was a blowout, was so much more frictionless. It was my best day by far in terms of number closes, and more importantly, connecting on a real level with girls.   Far more significant than any improvement in any one day's "performance" or "outcomes," Shae really provided me with a mental framework and some basic tools on how to improve myself in every domain of life moving forward. Some of his ideas you instantly get, while some of his other ideas your mind doesn't logically "understand" but your body does and is waiting for the mind to catch up. The person I want my future self to be, what I need to do to get there, and which paths I must avoid, have never been more well-defined. "

Bill

"Shae helped me address deep-seated social and psychological traumas stemming from my childhood. I had no idea just how much these experiences had shaped my mindset and thought patterns as an adult. I had suffered from social anxiety and fear of the spotlight for virtually all of my post-adolescent life. I’d become my own worst enemy. After just a few short sessions with Shae, however, I was liberated from this self-imposed mental prison. I was stunned by how a lifetime of damage could be reversed in just a couple of hours. One simply cannot put a price tag on this kind of healing. It’s now been several weeks since I re-entered my former life and work after Shae’s coaching. I’m happy to share that the changes we worked on together have not only stuck but have grown and evolved even further. I now love being around people, I seek and embrace challenges at work and in life and I feel so empowered and exhilarated in pressure situations in a way that I never imagined would be possible for me. I’ll forever be grateful to Shae for helping me become the man I always knew I could be. The Shae-man changed my life. "

Adrien
Sydney, Australia

"I very much appreciate what shae does.  He is conscientious, fully present, and focused.  He gave me goals for each session and had the patience and fortitude to help me achieve them.  I went to a Dr. Psychologist for 2 years to help me with my commitment and dating issues.  He was a super cool knowledgeable dude with a ton of Diplomas and Credentials.  He helped me fix some things, but I'd say shae is 100x more effective.   I find shae brilliantly gifted in the realm of psychoanalysis, hypnotherapy, and coaching.  He is extremely intuitive, has a wise presence, positive energy, and a plethora of tools to correct negative habits and behaviours.  I suspect he is an empath, not sure he believes those even exist :)."

Matt
New York, USA

""Shae has a great ability to reduce overthinking and transform self-imposed limitations into forward momentum. With the stresses and expectations that we put on ourselves with life and women it is great to have access Shae's vast knowledge and have the tools to deal with any situation and give me mindsets that can help me get what I want from life.  From break ups to motivation to self-empowerment, Shae has helped treat my inner battles with the respect, care and ethical strength they deserve, helping me to take action on my feelings and live up to my potential.""

Nick
Melbourne, Australia

"I am writing to let you know that, since our talk, things have been great with me.  I feel like I am on the right path. I have been doing a an inner game Audio meditation everyday for the past three weeks and I have to commend you, they're incredible. "

Adam

"A Chinese proverb says ‘The way of great truth is not difficult to know; the evil is that men do not seek it.’ I took a plunge and joined shae for coaching. Having just completed a number of sessions a couple of weeks ago. I reckon every man needs to do something like this and while few have the balls, courage steps forward. The coaching really balanced very well, the essential theories and practices needed to make effective changes. Shae expertly represents the varying levels of understanding needed to guide men on their way to inner balance and fulfillment. This vital work comes highly recommended! I’m still doing the exercises like Dragon Yoga daily and Shae’s client based, personal assistance in my relationship since its completion is continuing to prove invaluable to me. Gentlemen? Take this step!"

Simon

"Before I meet Shae I felt lost and I was confused. I did not know witch direction I wanted to take in life, or how to go about the inner resources that I have in myself. I did not feel like I had the resources and I felt ashamed of the feelings and desires that I have. Working with Shae was amazing and confusing. I felt that he grounded in himself and that he has a lot of experience and a even more tools and practices to help us. He was very good at focusing on the internal state of emotion and he wanted to help us accept and change our current beliefs and feelings. I personally had a few breakdowns with him, mostly because he made me experience the deepest realms of myself and the constant blocking I do to myself. I felt amazing because he showed me that I have the power to control myself, however, the constant facing of myself was challenging and confusing. I remember that he wanted to help me. He actually cared about my feelings. However, he was not there to solve them he was there to guide and show a way that could be useful, witch was great, because it meant that he gave me the power to change and grow into whatever I wished. After I worked with Shae I have seen the changes that I have a lot of new resources that I can draw power and inspiration from. I have gotten a bigger toolkit, that helps me to incorporate my shadow into my life as a strength. One of the best things for me was the new way of thinking of myself and my reality. However, I am still on a path of discovering what I am capable of and I am still battling my thought patters and processes. I would recommend him because he has the knowledge and the power to guide you. He has a lot of different tools that is useful and practical to your everyday life. He is focused on inner-game witch is the most important part of being able to change and shift into whatever it is one desire."

Harry

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The three steps of The Process

1. KNOW YOURSELF

Step one: Recognise how you suffer by tracking where you create self-sabotage with shame, guilt, fear, low self-worth, depression and behaviors of learned helplessness.

2. MASTER YOURSELF

Step two: Awaken yourself from your suffering with awareness and experience true presence and freedom from past trauma and limiting assumptions of your perceptions.

3. EXPRESS YOURSELF

Step three: Liberate yourself from suffering and cultivate high self-worth and confidence by stabilising your perception and experience into deep satisfaction and resourcefulness.

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